Secure Shidduch Reserves, Professionally Managed

The Shidduch Exchange is a fintech escrow platform that connects families, shadchanim, and contributors to facilitate and financially support Jewish matchmaking with trust and transparency.

Friends & Family Can Contribute Too!

On The Shidduch Exchange, it's not just parents who can build a shidduch reserve. Anyone — grandparents, aunts, uncles, family friends — can contribute funds toward a child's future match, even if they didn't create the child's profile.

How it works for contributors: Search for the child you'd like to support, choose your contribution amount and visibility settings, and your funds are held securely in escrow. You control whether your name is shown to the parents (you can contribute anonymously). The parents always choose which shadchan receives the funds upon a confirmed match.

  • Contributions are held securely in escrow until a match is confirmed
  • You can request a refund within 90 days if needed
  • Contribute anonymously if you prefer
  • Parents decide which shadchan receives the payout — you don't need to worry about it

How It Works

Three simple user types, one powerful platform for facilitating shidduchim.

For Parents

  1. 1.Add your child's profile with bio and preferred contacts
  2. 2.Pledge reserve funds — held securely in escrow
  3. 3.Control which shadchanim can see how much is reserved
  4. 4.When your child is engaged, choose which shadchan receives the funds

For Shadchanim

  1. 1.Apply as a shadchan and get approved by the admin
  2. 2.Search children, view reserves, and track ideas in your CRM
  3. 3.Make a shidduch and report the engagement
  4. 4.Submit a payout claim and receive your fee via Stripe

For Friends & Family Contributors

  1. 1.Create an account (no need to be a parent)
  2. 2.Search for a child you'd like to support
  3. 3.Contribute funds — optionally anonymously
  4. 4.Parents handle the rest — your funds go to the shadchan when a match is made

Platform Features

Secure Escrow

All funds held in secure escrow. Funds only released upon confirmed engagement with admin approval.

Privacy Controls

Control who sees your reserves: All shadchanim, Verified only (Silver+), or Upon Request. Bio visibility too.

Shadchan Rankings

NEW → SILVER → GOLD → DIAMOND → PLATINUM. Earn rank through confirmed paid shidduchim (min $1,000 each).

CRM for Shadchanim

Track shidduch ideas, set contact reminders, and manage your pipeline with our built-in CRM.

Transparent Fees

10% platform fee on payouts, 3% surcharge for card payments. FEE_REDUCTION promos available.

Family Contributions

Grandparents, friends, and family can contribute to a child's reserve — even anonymously.

Ready to get started?

Join The Shidduch Exchange today — whether you're a parent, shadchan, or someone who wants to help make a shidduch happen.